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Yes, you should give customs the recipient information. That way they can contact you easier and you can get issues figured out easier and pay if you have tolls/VAT to pay.

That's better than them not being able to reach you and having to send your parcel back to China.

If you're worried about criminal charges: if it's getting that serious, they will find out anything they want from your address.

added: 6/26/2023