French customs agree that EMS is the best for safe shipping, cheap shipping and overall. It is reported that you can ship 3.2kg up to 4.9kg.
DHL comes in 2nd place, you can ship over 3.5kg, but the data how you can go above that is unclear.
added: 6/26/2023
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